The
Heavenly Doctrines tell us that every human being, every one of
us, has been created with an innate belief that there is a God and that
He is
one. We see evidence of this when we are with little children. They
readily
acknowledge heavenly truths such as that the Lord is their Heavenly
Father,
that they are under the protection of angels, that everything in the
universe
is living and good because it was created by Him. It’s as they
get older, and
more experienced in the ways of the world that they become more
callous,
questioning, cynical – more like adults. But we all do begin with
this basic
premise: that there is a God, and that
He is one. This is the primitive doctrine or religious point of view of
every
man.
It is
also true that from the moment of birth our environment,
hereditary inclinations, our educational experience, and the results of
our own
free choices begin to add to the basic doctrinal view. We experience
the
delights of good behaviour, and the pain that comes from bad behaviour
– and we
adjust and add to our doctrine to account for the ways other people
react to
us. People whom we trust and love tell us that certain things are true,
and we
believe what they say because we love them, whether we fully understand
what
they say or not. We become aware of the kinds of things the people in
our home
community do and think, and we consciously and subconsciously either
adjust our
own view to fit, or we begin to associate more and more with others
outside our
home group. Over the years each of us builds up a doctrine as unique as
our own
personality, and depending on what our life’s experience has
been, it may bear
little resemblance to the primitive idea placed there by God at birth.
Such is
the nature and completeness of our spiritual freedom that we
may take what God has freely given us, and make of it whatever we wish,
make it
totally and uniquely our own. However, the fact remains that the
Writings teach
that all humans begin with the same doctrinal basis. Since this is the
case, we
should be able to see some evidence of that common religious background
in all
peoples.
For
example, we note that in almost every known form of society,
whether pagan or God-fearing, whether ancient or modern, there is some
form of
practice or ritual in which people may thank God for His gifts. The
Ancient
Canaanites ritually sacrificed their first-born children. Ancient
farmers would
place the first produce of their fields at the foot of the statue of
their
local god. The children of Israel brought a sacrifice to the temple as
a symbol
of their willingness to give their children to Jehovah, a practice that
was
commanded by God to replace human sacrifice with them, and which
continued for
thousands of years. Recall that Joseph and Mary brought Jesus to the
temple
with the sacrifice of the first-born son. Even in our day, in many
countries
throughout the world, a day is set aside for national thanksgiving at
about the
time of harvest.
Why is
it, in a world that seems to be increasingly materialistic and
godless, do these ancient practices survive? Why do people continue to
feel a
need to thank God when important milestones in their life are reached?
Why is
it that in a world where marriage is increasingly viewed as a purely
natural
contract that can be broken the moment it ceases to be convenient, that
people
still want to be married in a church? Why is it that people who
haven’t prayed
in years suddenly find themselves fervently praying to God that a loved
one
will survive a time of severe trouble or illness. Could it be that, for
all our
sophisticated veneer and technological advances, most people still have
the
voice of God within them, whispering that He is there and that He wants
to
bring reassurance and peace into our lives? And people instinctively
want to
respond to that knowledge by turning to Him at the important milestones
of
life, at those times in our lives when our attention is turned away for
just a
moment from those natural material things that occupy most of our time
and
attention. When we come to church to witness a baptism, a wedding, or a
funeral, we are prepared to consider some eternal truths that we might
not be
willing to consider at any other time.
The
127th Psalm speaks about the part the Lord plays in life’s
events,
and beautifully phrases the Psalmist’s thanks to Him for His
help. The Psalm
begins with the words, “Unless the Lord builds the house,
they labour in
vain who build it,” and as the opening idea it sets the tone
for all the
rest of the psalm. Through much of our life we work very hard, we put a
lot of
thought and effort into the things we do, and to a great extent we want
to take
credit for them to ourselves. The farmer clears the field, plows it,
plants it,
cultivates the new plants, waters it during drought, and harvests it in
its
season. He works from dawn to dusk through the whole season – and
yet he gives
thanks to God for the good harvest. And it is very important for him
that he do
so, for the knowledge and acknowledgement that God alone lives is the
“celestial confession” – but through His gift we have
the joy and the pleasure
of performing uses in the world as-if-of-ourselves.
Our text
focuses on the idea that children are an inheritance of the
Lord, that they are a reward from God for a good life. But at the same
time we
must know that having and raising children is not always rewarding
– it can be
expensive, frustrating, and difficult, so we must ask ourselves how to
understand this promise. The Heavenly Doctrines speak specifically to
this
point when they say, “Since there is no other offspring born
of spiritual
marriage, and a male offspring is truth and good in the understanding
and
consequent thought and a female offspring is truth and good in the will
and
consequent affection, therefore by ‘a son’ in the Word
truth is signified” (AR
543:2).
The
Doctrines further explain who the heirs of God are:
“All who are in the heavens - are heirs of
the Lord’s kingdom; for they all make one heaven. It is that
which is internal
that causes any one to be an heir. That which is internal is love to
the Lord
and charity toward the neighbour; in proportion therefore to the love
and the
charity which they have, in the same proportion they are sons and
heirs, for in
the same proportion are they partakers of the Lord’s life”
(AC 1802).
Wherever
the Word speaks about children, it is telling us about the
good that we can have when we live according to the truth that the Lord
has
given us from heaven. And the more we live the life of charity, the
more we
will be prepared to receive our inheritance and our reward from God. “The
heavenly kingdom should be given as an inheritance to those who from
charity
have faith in Him” (AC 1865).
In the
church we often speak of the marriage of good and truth, and
how when this occurs, uses are the result, but how can we get a feeling
for
what this really means? When God created the universe, He did so by
uniting His
Divine Love – His desire to have a human race to care for –
with His Divine
Wisdom – His plan for an orderly development on all planes to
eternity. The
result was the spiritual world, the natural universe, and all the
living things
therein.
By
correspondence the same thing happens in marriage. The love of
creating and nurturing new life – (the wife) is united to the
intelligence and
wisdom to teach new life (the husband) in the marriage, and on the
natural
plane this expresses itself as a new human being, an eternal life that
is loved
unconditionally by its parents. We should not be surprised that the
conjugial
delights of marriage are so wonderful when we see that they represent
nothing
less than the joy that God felt when He created the human race.
God’s purpose
in creating the universe was so that there would be a heaven from the
human
race that He could care for, and that would be free to return His love.
Children
are meant to be angels of heaven, and we have been given the marvellous
privilege of sharing with God in the process of creating a heaven from
the
human race! No wonder children are the cause of such wonder and joy,
for they
give us a taste of God’s own delights.
But our
children grow up so fast and move away from home. They too
soon begin their own lives and families, and the parents who centred
their
whole lives on them are soon left alone. This cannot be the order God
intended.
If children are our heritage and our reward, why do they leave us when
they are
grown?
We have
both natural and spiritual children. Both can give us great
pleasure. Both are serious responsibilities. Natural children are a
great deal
of work, and considerable worry, and yet they are our prime source of
joy and
satisfaction in this world. How much more, then will be the joy and
satisfaction
we experience when we produce spiritual offspring and when we can spend
eternity watching them grow.
The Lord
loans us children for a time to teach us some important
lessons about Himself and His universe. He wants us to have some small
knowledge of why and how He created the universe when He shares with us
the
delight of the miracle of creation of new life, He wants to give us a
taste of
heaven when He gives us the celestial spheres of little children, and
He wants
us to know what an eternal life of use will be like when He gives us
the
opportunity to take part in the education and upbringing of a child.
Raising children in this world teaches us how to raise spiritual children, that is, how to do be genuinely useful to others. When after practice and conscious effort we form a good habit, when some truth from the Word is so ingrained in our hearts that we do it without thinking and from delight, it is called a marriage of good and truth. And when good and truth are married, there are spiritual offspring, that is, uses. When you form good habits from the Word, the things that you do are useful to others and express your charity and love to the neighbour. These actions are your spiritual children. They will be with you to eternity. They will bring you continual pleasure. Your sons will be the charitable thoughts you have, and your daughters will be the delights you feel. Eternal life is our inheritance, freely given by God to each of us His children. But the reward, the delight of heaven comes only to those who themselves produce children, that is, who produces spiritual offspring – goods and truths, for children are an heritage of the Lord. The fruit of the womb is His reward. AMEN.
(PSA
127) Unless the LORD builds the house, They labour in vain who
build it; Unless the LORD guards the city, The watchman stays awake in
vain.
{2} It is vain for you to rise up early, To sit up late, To eat
the bread
of sorrows; For so He gives His beloved sleep. {3} Behold,
children are a heritage from the LORD, The fruit of the womb is
a
reward. {4} Like arrows in the hand of a warrior, So are the
children of one’s youth. {5} Happy is the man
who has his quiver
full of them; They shall not be ashamed, But shall speak with their
enemies in
the gate. Amen.
…The
three uses of baptism cohere as a unit, like first cause, mediate
cause, and effect, for the sake of which the former exist; for the
first use is
that the man may be called a Christian; the second, following from
this, is
that he may know and acknowledge the Lord the Redeemer, Regenerator and
Saviour; and the third that be may be regenerated by Him; and when this
is done
man is redeemed and saved. As these three uses follow in order, and are
conjoined in the last, and consequently in the conception of the angels
cohere
as a unit, so when baptism is performed, read of in the Word, or
mentioned, the
angels who are present do not understand baptism, but regeneration.
Therefore, by
these words of the Lord: He who
believes and is baptized will be saved; but he who does not believe
will be
condemned. (Mark xvi. 16), the angels in heaven understand that he
who
acknowledges the Lord and is regenerated will be saved. And for this
reason
baptism is called by the Christian churches on earth the laver of
regeneration.
Let every Christian know, then, that he who does not believe in the
Lord even
though he has been baptized, cannot be regenerated. Also that baptism
without
faith in the Lord has no effect whatever. Every Christian is well aware
that
baptism involves purification from evils, and thus regeneration, for
when he is
baptized in infancy, the priest with his finger makes the sign of the
cross, as
a memorial of the Lord, on his forehead and breast, and afterwards
turns to his
sponsors and asks whether he renounces the devil and all his works, and
accepts
the faith; to which the sponsors, in the place of the infant, answer,
“Yes.”
The renunciation of the devil, that is, of the evils that are from
hell, and
faith in the Lord, are what effect regeneration.